Headline: BLACK
PEOPLE CAN BE RACISTS, TOO
Reporter: By Gregory Freeman
Publication: ST.
LOUIS POST-DISPATCH
Last Printed: Fri., Jun. 2, 1995
Section: WAR PAGE, Page: 5B, Edition: FIVE STAR LIFT
THE WOMAN was
clearly upset.
She
and her daughter had moved into a new neighborhood. Now, every day when the
daughter walked home from school, she found herself taunted by other youngsters
because her skin color was different from theirs. At times the girl came home
in tears because of the hateful words and racial epithets that had been tossed
at her by youngsters who enjoyed little more than getting her goat. She was
different, and that was enough for the other kids to tease her.
"We
are trying so hard to fit in here, " the woman said. "But it's hard
when it seems like everyone's trying their best to make us feel different."
She's
"different" because she's white, living in a largely black area in
Jennings.
In another instance,
a white woman developed a friendship with a black woman at work. The two became
fast companions, causing the black woman's African-American friends to criticize
her and accuse her of trying to "be white."
It
caused the black woman embarrassment at first, but she finally got her critics
to back off after telling them that she would not allow others to tell her with
whom she could make friends.
But
even the relationship between the two women took an unfortunate turn when the
black woman got married. Her friend who, by now, knew various relatives and
other friends of the bride, was invited to the wedding and went to the reception
afterward.
When
she got there, however, the only reception she got was a chilly one. The only
white person attending, she found herself snubbed, even by people she knew.
"It was as if people were afraid of what other people might think if they
talked to me, " she said. Hurt by the experience, she left the reception.
Some black people
who read the previous anecdotes may say, "Well, now she knows how it feels
to be the only black person in a situation." Indeed, that may be the case,
especially since black people and other minorities - by nature of the fact that
we are minorities - are more likely to be in situations where we are the only
ones.
But
that doesn't negate the fact that prejudice exists and that no race has a monopoly
on it.
Just
as some blacks, Hispanics and Asians have been discriminated against by whites
over the years, some whites also have felt the poisonous venom of discrimination
by blacks.
The
situations may not be quite as dramatic, of course. I'm unaware of a black equivalent
of the Ku Klux Klan, for instance.
But the slights, often on a more personal level, are just as detrimental
to race relations as larger, institutional racism.
If we look at
racism as a major issue that only institutions must contend with, we put ourselves
in the position of saying that there's nothing we can do to reduce the problem.
That leads to a defeatist attitude, one of shrugging our shoulders and giving
up.
While
there is much that institutions can do to reduce discrimination, there's also
much that individuals can do as well. The longest journey begins with a single
step, as the saying goes.
As
blacks, we sometimes assume that we can't be prejudiced against others because
we often have suffered a great deal at the hands of discrimination. Sometimes,
though, that suffering causes us to be blind to what we may be doing to others,
sometimes without even realizing it.
Some argue strenuously
that blacks can't be racist. Their argument goes something like this: that for
blacks to be racist, blacks would have to have power in this society and be
able to keep others from getting it. Because blacks have no power in this society,
blacks cannot be racist.
That
argument, in my view, has more holes than a slice of Swiss cheese. It makes
huge assumptions and is based on a "woe-is-me" attitude. While cumulatively,
blacks certainly don't hold the power that whites hold in our society, it would
be to negate the accomplishments of countless African-Americans who have achieved
to suggest that blacks hold none.
Second,
the plain and simple fact is that one does not have to have any power to be
a racist. Some of the most blatant white racists in our society have no power
at all. Lacking power, some of these pathetic individuals turn to violence against
minorities to try to make themselves feel that they have power over someone
else.
Many would like
to see an end to discrimination. Many would strive for a nation of racial harmony.
Many realize how much more productive this country would be if we could get
rid of racism and focus our efforts on other problems.
What
all of us - regardless of race - must do in the meantime, however, is take a
good look at ourselves to see if we're part of the problem. Without doing that,
we may be contributing as much to racism as the cowards who hide behind white
sheets and robes.
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